Tommy Fletcher
Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW)
New Mexico therapists accepting new clients
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About Tommy
I am licensed currently in New Mexico and Washington state with 10 + years of professional work experience in counseling adult and teen individuals, groups and couples. I have been in multiple social work positions dating back to 1987. Past experience includes many years in the legal system. I have experience in helping clients with stress and anxiety, trauma and abuse, intimacy related issues, & motivation, self-esteem, and confidence. I believe that you are the expert of your story and that you have many strengths that will assist you in overcoming beliefs, thoughts and prior actions that challenge you. Taking the first step to sign up for therapy can take courage and I am proud of you for getting started! I have available sessions through the day and evening hours Monday-Thursday.
What Tommy helps with
- Addictions
- Career difficulties
- Compassion fatigue
- Coping with life changes
- Depression
- Eating disorders
- Family conflicts
- Grief
- Intimacy-related issues
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
- Self esteem
- Sleeping disorders
- Stress, Anxiety
- Trauma and abuse
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- Abandonment
- Adoption and foster care
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Antisocial personality
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Co-morbidity
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intellectual disability
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Mood disorders
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Personality disorders
- Post-traumatic stress
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
How Tommy works
- Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
- Client-Centered Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
- Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
- Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Internal Family Systems
- Jungian Therapy
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Motivational Interviewing
- Solution-Focused Therapy
- Trauma-Focused Therapy
What clients say
- “Tommy makes it very comfortable to talk about things so it’s not as awkward, he really makes you see both sides of everything. I have really enjoyed my time with him so far.”
- “Tommy has given me the courage to hold my head up again, and to make my life better. He is a great listener with common sense and a great sense of humor. It's been very helpful to hear his perspective and advice.”
- “Tommy is very patient. He gives me opportunities to come to my own conclusions. <br /> <br /> He is very open and receptive to shifting perspectives. <br /> <br /> The best thing is he sends encouraging messages outside of our sessions.”
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- “Tom has helped us alot and made us realize we are not mad at each other.”
- “Insightful and empathic listener. Offers realistic, genuine perspectives, observations and advice. Very good at helping to guide you through negative emotions/experiences towards more positive ones. Highly recommend :)”
- “I really enjoy him especially just after one session.”
- “I am very happy that we were given the opportunity to have Tommy as our therapist. So easy to talk to and gives insight and tools to heal. I could not be happier.”
- “Mr. Fletcher is a great listener and is easy to talk to. Very accommodating.”
- “Good therapist. Listens well. Offers solicited advice.”
- “He listens and I can tell he gets it. I don’t want sympathy or patronizing misunderstanding. We connect well.”
- “Tommy is a patient, understanding, and insightful counselor. He focuses on the positives and encourages us both to do the same. He keeps in touch throughout the week with helpful inspiring bits of wisdom and answers any questions we throw at him no matter the time of day. He has truly been a blessing to our marriage.”
- “Great solutions”
- “Tommy is an excellent listener. He is not overtly judgmental, but does offer relevant and helpful feedback. Kind man with a lot of life experience to bring to the table. He was a particularly good match for me as a man over 50. Thank you, Tommy!”
- “Have only had two sessions with Tommy so far, but he knows how to get his experience and knowledge very well. He’s very blunt which I like and tells you what you need to hear and validates everything you’re saying or feeling. Tommy is the man.”
- “Tom has great advice from experience and is great at explaining things. He is patient and also understanding and offers new perspective on life's challenges. Truly grateful and happy with my therapist and would recommend better help five stars! <br /> Thank you!”
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