Thomas Haffner
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT)
About Thomas
I have been helping people achieve their therapeutic goals for over 18 years. Each person is unique, so a one-size-fits-all approach to therapy just won’t do. That’s why I use an integrative, therapeutic approach which is tailored to the individual and includes: Problem Solving; Structural Techniques; Inter-relational Techniques; Cognitive Techniques; Family-Of-Origin Issues and Individual Developmental Issues.
I have experience working with a variety of issues and I especially enjoy helping people manage their relationships.
You will find me to be friendly and non-judgmental, but firm in my commitment to help you strive towards your goals. Let’s work together to get you on a better path so you can live your life more abundantly.
What Thomas helps with
- Anger management
- Compassion fatigue
- Coping with life changes
- Depression
- Family conflicts
- Grief
- Intimacy-related issues
- Parenting issues
- Relationship issues
- Self esteem
- Stress, Anxiety
- Trauma and abuse
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- Blended family issues
- Codependency
- Divorce and separation
- Family problems
- Infidelity
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
How Thomas works
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
- Gottman Method
- Narrative Therapy
- Solution-Focused Therapy
What clients say
- “Thomas is very smart, intuitive, and patient. He has a lot of knowledge in the field of mental health. He has a way of getting me to understand my own issues without making me feel bad.”
- “I’m grateful we’ve found Thomas. We’ve found him to be calming, thoughtful and insightful, able to interpret what we mean when we have difficulty describing our problem.”
- “Thomas is very helpful and insightful. I have never benefited from counseling so much!”
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- “Very nice and professional person easy to work with my hectic schedule very reassuring when talking to seems to have an answer to almost every problem actually every problem whether it be the answer that I’ve already known myself or just helping me find the answer helps it easier to break down how I’m feeling in certain things from the past that make me feel or do certain things and how to deal with those things that I’ve said done or I feel like are happening”
- “Thomas has been a patient and entirely neutral yet authoritative counselor throughout our couples therapy sessions.”
- “Experienced in life”
- “Thomas is great. I’ve been working with him for a year now, and he’s been able to help me in so many different areas. My life is very complicated, but he’s able to create a safe space for me no matter the issue, and then offers powerful insight that has helped me address behaviors that have held me back until I met him.”
- “Thomas is very insightful and responsive. He approaches difficult things with courage, respect, and patience.”
- “A lighthouse in the storm”
- “Thomas is a great listener and has exactly what you need to get better. Even after the first visit I already felt so much tension gone off my shoulders. Highly recommend.”
- “Thomas is a great listener and has exactly what you need to get better. Even after the first visit I already felt so much tension gone off my shoulders. Highly recommend.”
- “Thomas listens to both sides and objectively leads to peaceful resolutions for us. He seeks the best for everyone involved.”
- “He is very calming and brought up many good points about what marriage is”
- “Thomas Haffner is outstanding in his profession. He listens attentively, converses thoughtfully and is non-judgemental. He has been very insightful and given me sound advice and direction in addition to his listening ear. I would highly recommend him to anyone.”
- “Thomas is thoughtful in his approach and has been very helpful for me during a very difficult time. I couldn't recommend him enough.”
These reviews represent a few of the most recent positive reviews from the therapist's clients on BetterHelp. Some people's experience may be different.
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