Dr. Lou Bordisso
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT)
California therapists accepting new clients
Adriene FaustLCSW · 20 years experienceCareer difficulties · Grief · Family conflictsWork with Adriene
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About Lou
As a licensed therapist with over three decades of experience, I specialize in supporting individuals through life’s complex emotional landscapes. My practice centers on helping clients navigate challenges related to identity, relationships, and personal growth. I have extensive expertise in working with LGBTQ+ communities, addressing issues of stress, anxiety, depression, and life transitions.
My approach is compassionate and affirming, focusing on helping individuals develop self-love, improve communication, and overcome feelings of isolation. I’m particularly skilled in supporting clients through midlife challenges, young adult transitions, workplace stress, and complex personal dynamics. Whether you’re struggling with social anxiety, relationship issues, or seeking deeper personal understanding, I offer a supportive and non-judgmental space for exploration and healing.
I’m committed to creating an inclusive environment that honors each person’s unique journey, with a deep understanding of the intersections of identity, mental health, and personal growth. My goal is to empower you to develop stronger self-awareness, build resilience, and create meaningful connections in your life.
What Lou helps with
- Addictions
- Career difficulties
- Coping with life changes
- Depression
- Family conflicts
- Grief
- Intimacy-related issues
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
- Self esteem
- Stress, Anxiety
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- Abandonment
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Attachment issues
- Avoidant personality
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Body image
- Cancer
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Co-morbidity
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Dependent personality
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Guilt and shame
- HIV / AIDS
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Impulsivity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
How Lou works
- Client-Centered Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
- Existential Therapy
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Psychodynamic Therapy
- Solution-Focused Therapy
What clients say
- “Lou is very knowledgeable and kind”
- “I have been matched with Dr Bordisso for some time now and he is knowledgeable and understanding.”
- “Without fail, I leave our session enabled with a new idea or tool to move forward. Dr Lou always provides at least one nugget of advice or piece of information that I can immediately apply. I always feel like he has listened to me, understands my core values, and then shines a light on a doable next step.”
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- “He listens well and offers lots of great advice.”
- “Dr. Bordisso has been an exceptional therapist for me. His expertise is evident in his attentive listening, insightful questions, and ability to pinpoint core issues. He consistently provides valuable guidance during sessions, and even shares relevant articles afterwards to reinforce our discussions. Dr. Bordisso's genuine care for my progress, combined with his professional skills, has empowered me to make positive and lasting changes. These changes have led to stronger relationships, reduced stress, and a more fulfilling life. Thank you, Dr. Bordisso!”
- “Dr. Bordisso is very kind and knowledgeable. Thank you and look forward to our next session.”
- “Trustworthy Dr! Who listens and cares about his patients”
- “I'm writing to enthusiastically recommend Dr. Bordisso as a therapist. He's been instrumental in helping me gain self-awareness and navigate personal challenges in a positive way.<br /> <br /> Dr. Bordisso is not only a highly intelligent and knowledgeable therapist, but he also possesses exceptional qualities that make him truly outstanding. He's an empathetic and active listener who seems to understand my concerns even before I fully express them. Most importantly, his genuine care shines through - it's clear Dr. Bordisso prioritizes the best possible outcomes for his clients, and I have no doubt that extends to everyone he works with.<br /> <br /> Beyond the sessions themselves, Dr. Bordisso takes a comprehensive approach by following up with helpful articles and suggestions tailored specifically to me. This has significantly boosted my confidence in tackling issues that once felt overwhelming.<br /> <br /> If you're seeking a therapist who is both brilliant and deeply caring, look no further than Dr. Bordisso!”
- “Dr. Bordisso seems to have a firm grasp on my mental health complications, and takes that into account when making recommendations. I have come to trust him more than any of the other therapists I've been too.”
- “Very knowledgeable and very easy to talk to!”
- “Lou has a wealth of wisdom and a wealth of empathy. I always feel refreshed and more hopeful after a session with him. Thank you Lou, for everything.”
- “Growing up in an alcoholic/divorced family, I've engaged with a number of counselors throughout the years (I'm older.) Unfortunately, too many were not right for me. And, from my experiences, finding the right therapist for your needs and personality is vital. Because BetterHelp's questionnaires are used to match you with the best therapist and because you're allowed to change therapists at any time, no questions asked, I found my fit on the second try. Dr. Bordisso is talented, knowledgeable, thoughtful, client-centered, caring. In a very short period of time, he has has helped me adjust my perspective on a challenging situation that has plagued me for a number of years. I am forever grateful to Dr. Bordisso!”
- “Dr. Bordisso is a compassionate, professional, knowledgeable therapist who has been an immense help to me. He not only listens intently but also gives balanced advice that has been followed up by beneficial articles. I have more peace of mind since I've been meeting with Dr. Bordisso, and that means a great deal!”
- “Very understanding , kind and positive .”
- “Such a kind individual who understands your issues and will help you work through them!”
These reviews represent a few of the most recent positive reviews from the therapist's clients on BetterHelp. Some people's experience may be different.