
Ilkem Onder
Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC)
Florida therapists accepting new clients
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About Ilkem
I am licensed in Florida and Virginia with 8 years of professional work experience. As a therapist, I believe that it is important to understand holism when treating the mind, body and behavior and thus look at things as a whole. My mission is to help my clients discover their own beliefs and how to move towards a healthier and fulfilling life. I strive to formalize various treatment approaches that are geared to fit the client’s individual needs and further help address maladaptive patterns in a safe, supportive and nurturing environment.
What Ilkem helps with
- Addictions
- ADHD
- Anger management
- Career difficulties
- Coaching
- Compassion fatigue
- Coping with life changes
- Depression
- Family conflicts
- Grief
- Intimacy-related issues
- Parenting issues
- Relationship issues
- Self esteem
- Sleeping disorders
- Stress, Anxiety
- Trauma and abuse
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- Abandonment
- Attachment issues
- Cancer
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Divorce and separation
- Fertility issues
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Infidelity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Life purpose
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Post-traumatic stress
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Self-love
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
How Ilkem works
- Client-Centered Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Motivational Interviewing
- Solution-Focused Therapy
What clients say
- “she listens and has good advice”
- “Ilkem has guided me through the grieving process, my grief, my anger, my expectations and my aloneness. I don't know what I would have done without her guidance and support.”
- “SO FAR SHE MAKES ME FEEL HEARD AND SEEN!”
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- “Very helpful and calm with situations that are tough to navigate.”
- “Professional and kind. She frames things well for reflection and provides great support and resources. I highly recommend Ilkem!”
- “Ilkem is amazing. She listens and provides advice. When I’m spiraling she brings me back to steady ground.”
- “10/10. she is attentive and reasonable, reminding me what it looks like to stay on the right track.”
- “A few sessions in and Ilkem has been wonderful so far. Helps me sort out my own thoughts and listens well. Thank you”
- “She’s amazing”
- “Great job”
- “Ilkem asks great questions and frames things in a way that helps me reflect and see things from different angles. She also gives me useful tips and resources.”
- “My therapist, Ilkem, has helped and guided through some very emotional and trying times. I always look forward to our sessions and feel stronger, validated, and heard.”
- “Ilkem Onder is very empathetic and understanding. She is very good at listening and makes the space safe where I feel comfortable to share things. She doesn’t force me into talking she is very reassuring and introspective. I appreciate her words and wisdom.”
- “She’s the best”
- “I’ve been working with Ilkem for over a year, and she has truly made a huge difference in my life. She’s compassionate, honest, and incredibly insightful. I always feel heard, supported, and understood in every session.<br /> <br /> She helps me grow, understand myself better, and navigate tough moments with clarity and calm. I’ve made more progress with her than I have in years of therapy before.<br /> <br /> I’m genuinely grateful for her and highly recommend her to anyone looking for a caring, effective therapist.”
These reviews represent a few of the most recent positive reviews from the therapist's clients on BetterHelp. Some people's experience may be different.





