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Deborah Tommey

OK LPC LPC06345
Credentials
OK LPC LPC06345
NPI Number
1760994099
Location
Oklahoma
Languages
English
Deborah Tommey

Accepting new clients

15 years experience | Intl Clients Welcome
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About Deborah Tommey

As a licensed therapist (Licensed Professional Counselor), I obtained my Master of Counseling from Oklahoma State University/Tulsa, Oklahoma. My practice includes adults. Specialties I offer, and am experienced and well-trained in, are anxiety, depression, grief/loss, dementia/cognitive impairment, trauma, and stress-related disorders. Other areas of focus include sexuality, LGBTQ concerns, hoarding disorder, and other behavioral health interests. I also offer extensive knowledge of the aging population and caregivers.

Although I recognize that all clients are unique individuals and that different theories work differently for everyone, I strive to assess clients and determine which type of therapy will be most successful. Primarily, I practice Person-Centered Therapy and incorporate some Solution-Focused, Gestalt, and Existential techniques.

I start with an optimistic view of all clients, providing a positive, supportive, and comfortable atmosphere/conversation. I offer an empathic outlook, working to connect with you. I am hopeful my clients can feel autonomy, and I also ask, “What difference or change do you want to achieve”? I believe taking a look at your meaning in life can be insightful many times, too. I also offer mindfulness techniques when appropriate, as I do credit holistic approaches as important for us emotionally and physically.

I have been successful in facilitating support groups for various populations and numerous diagnoses, as well as training and education of other professionals regarding many Behavioral Health concerns.

I prefer to work with adults aged 20 or older. Phone and video are astonishing ways to provide counseling sessions; however, I am not so keen on live chat. I do use the messaging for in between sessions, if there is something of importance you want to share or let me know. I will do the same.

I hope to facilitate and support you through this process and towards your goal in seeking therapy.

Licenses

LPC
LPC06345

Professional experience

  • ADHD
  • Anger management
  • Career difficulties
  • Coaching
  • Compassion fatigue
  • Coping with life changes
  • Depression
  • Family conflicts
  • Grief
  • Intimacy-related issues
  • LGBT
  • Relationship issues
  • Self esteem
  • Sleeping disorders
  • Stress, Anxiety
  • Trauma and abuse

Additional Focus Areas

  • Abandonment
  • Aging and geriatric issues
  • Body image
  • Caregiver issues and stress
  • Communication problems
  • Control issues
  • Dependent personality
  • Divorce and separation
  • Domestic violence
  • Emptiness
  • Family of origin issues
  • Forgiveness
  • Guilt and shame
  • Hoarding
  • Hospice and end-of-life counseling
  • Intellectual disability
  • Isolation / loneliness
  • Jealousy
  • Life purpose
  • Midlife crisis
  • Multicultural concerns
  • Panic disorder and panic attacks
  • Phobias
  • Post-traumatic stress
  • Prejudice and discrimination
  • Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
  • Self-harm
  • Self-love
  • Sexual assault and abuse
  • Sexual dysfunction
  • Sexuality
  • Social anxiety and phobia
  • Traumatic brain injury
  • Women's issues
  • Workplace issues

Clinical Approaches

  • Client-Centered Therapy
  • Existential Therapy
  • Mindfulness Therapy
  • Motivational Interviewing
  • Solution-Focused Therapy
  • Trauma-Focused Therapy

Languages

  • English

15 Reviews

“I really appreciate the support Deborah gives me. I know I essentially dump in scattered form, but she seems to follow and help me make sense of what is worth sorting and keeping and what needs to be left behind.”

“Provides excellent feedback and practical excersizes”

“Provided great insight and practical tasks to get past obstacles”

“Deborah does a great job with me. Listens well and has helped me three grief.”

“She compassion and knowledgeable! I trust her”

“Deborah has been a great therapist for me! She keeps me real but respects me as a person. I think anyone who has her as a therapist is pleased!”

“Deborah Tommey has provided me with some scoping skills that are proving most helpful.”

“She is great and listens to me. She also gives me homework”

“She’s wonderful!”

“My experience with Better Help and with Deborah really helped me when I was going through something hard. I’ve been noticing the changes as I’ve been going on and continuing my counseling. Deborah helped me feel in control of the situation and helped giving me ways to process my emotions and my anxiety. I really wasn’t too sure in the beginning but now I am. This helped better myself and I hope it does for you too!”

“Thought provoking and so helpful”

“Very good expirience”

“Ms. Tommey is respectful, knowledgeable and covers all of my concerns each time we talk. I admire her thorough discussions and thoughtful considerations. She provides excellent exercises without overwhelming me. She's truly a joy to work with.”

“She is direct and to the point. And asks questions for me to figure things out.”

“Thank you for taking the time to understand my history and asking the relevant questions and examples to come to a better understanding of the sources of my mental health concerns, and then dealing with those incrementally that's best suitable for me.”

These reviews represent a few of the most recent positive reviews from the therapist's clients on BetterHelp. Some people's experience may be different.
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