
Darla Belflower
Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW)
About Darla
As a licensed therapist in Missouri and Kansas, I bring more than three decades of clinical experience helping individuals navigate life’s most complex challenges. I strive to create affirming, inclusive spaces where clients from diverse backgrounds feel seen, respected, and supported. My areas of expertise include addiction and recovery, women’s mental health, and supporting LGBTQ+ individuals throughout their healing journeys.
I provide compassionate guidance to individuals facing substance use concerns, life transitions, relationship challenges, caregiving responsibilities, and emotional distress. My therapeutic approach is collaborative and grounded in empathy, helping clients identify their strengths, heal from shame and guilt, and develop practical strategies for managing stress, depression, anxiety, and the demands of everyday life.
As a person in long-term recovery, I understand the courage it takes to seek change and the importance of hope, connection, and authenticity in the healing process. Whether clients are exploring recovery, rebuilding relationships, navigating major life transitions, or seeking greater emotional wellness, I am committed to providing a non-judgmental environment where they can build resilience, rediscover their strengths, and create meaningful, lasting change.
What Darla helps with
- Addictions
- Bipolar disorder
- Career difficulties
- Coaching
- Compassion fatigue
- Coping with life changes
- Depression
- Family conflicts
- Grief
- LGBT
- Parenting issues
- Relationship issues
- Self esteem
- Stress, Anxiety
Show 16 more areas
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Communication problems
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Family problems
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Guilt and shame
- HIV / AIDS
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Life purpose
- Mood disorders
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Post-traumatic stress
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Sexuality
- Women's issues
How Darla works
- Client-Centered Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Motivational Interviewing
- Trauma-Focused Therapy
What clients say
- “She’s the kindest, most compassionate, and educated therapists I’ve ever had. More than that. She’s real”
- “Darla is kind, a great listener, and is able to hear through the nonsense for reoccurring ideas or issues. She is direct without being harsh. She also provides resources to help me solve my problems long term.”
- “She is an amazing therapist!”
Show all 9 reviews
- “Darla is excellent! She has really helped me with my issues and provides support!”
- “Having gone through one of the most difficult periods of my life, losing my husband and becoming a caretaker for my mother, I joined BetterHelp to deal with grief and guilt. Darla guided me to such a better place, and I looked forward to each session. I still use gratitude journaling every day to keep track of all great and good things that are most definitely present in my life. I'm truly grateful for her help.”
- “I LOVE Darla! She’s my 3rd ever therapist & 2nd from BetterHelp & SHE IS THE ONE! She listened to me so intentionally the first session that she knew exactly how to approach me in our sessions! She makes me feel seen & heard & I know she truly cares about me. It doesn’t feel like she is just doing her job, I feel cared for which is exactly what I wanted in my therapist. She is awesome & I would recommend her to anyone!”
- “Darla will listen to all your concerns and guide you through each step to reach the other side. She gave me the resources I needed in my situation. I felt heard when speaking with her. Thanks Darla :)”
- “Darla is the best! She is a great therapist and listens to my issues and then makes suggestions! She is a gem!”
- “She has been helpful and responsive to my worries.”
These reviews represent a few of the most recent positive reviews from the therapist's clients on BetterHelp. Some people's experience may be different.
More Missouri therapists
20% off your first month with code virtualaddiction20. We earn a commission from BetterHelp if you sign up through these links.





