Dr. Ralph Datema
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT)
Colorado therapists accepting new clients
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About Ralph
I am a family and marriage therapist licensed in Colorado with over 40 years of experience working as Marriage and Family Therapist, mental health therapist and pastoral psychotherapist. I have worked with clients presenting a wide range of concerns including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, parenting challenges, challenges of faith, and various levels of trauma.
My therapy style is supportive, invites personal reflection, focuses on relation to self, life, and others. I will work with individuals, couples, and families. I also work well with aging process issues — especially senior couples and individuals. My approach combines cognitive-behavioral, humanistic, psychodynamic and rational therapy. The foundation of my therapeutic approach is systemic based therapy which empowers separating self from the multitude of external historical influences that surround us. I will tailor our dialog and treatment plan to meet your unique and specific needs.
It takes courage to seek a more fulfilling and happier life and to take the first steps towards change. If you are ready to take that step, I am here to support and empower you.
I look forward to working with you!
What Ralph helps with
- Addictions
- ADHD
- Anger management
- Bipolar disorder
- Career difficulties
- Coaching
- Compassion fatigue
- Coping with life changes
- Depression
- Eating disorders
- Family conflicts
- Grief
- Intimacy-related issues
- LGBT
- Parenting issues
- Relationship issues
- Self esteem
- Sleeping disorders
- Stress, Anxiety
- Trauma and abuse
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- Multicultural concerns
- Personality disorders
- Prejudice and discrimination
How Ralph works
- Client-Centered Therapy
- Existential Therapy
- Gottman Method
- Internal Family Systems
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Psychodynamic Therapy
- Solution-Focused Therapy
What clients say
- “Dr. Datema was very helpful and respectful as he helped guide us through some issues. I felt like we were brought closer together and gained a better understanding of each other. We are now to the point where we need to put some of the tools into practice, and work on our individual issues. We will continue to pursue therapy when needed.”
- “very satisfied”
- “You are awesome!”
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- “He’s been extremely patient and helpful throughout my journey.”
- “Dr. Datema is super knowledgeable and has been amazing so far. Highly recommend him!”
- “So far we have had 3 sessions with Dr. Datema, and I have found them to be very beneficial for me. My spouse seems to be benefitting, as well, as he wants to continue and participates in a way that I didn't think he would. Dr. Datema's approach has been open-minded and understanding, and he does a good job of making sure I stay in my lane. We will continue to work with Dr. Datema for now, as I have no complaints.”
- “Dr. Datema is the best counselor I've ever worked with. He's brilliant and wise. As a marriage counselor, he doesn't have you rehash issues to determine who is right or wrong, he offers TOOLS you can use in all aspects of life to increase your ability to connect in meaningful ways. The man is a hero and a mental health ninja. Life-altering care is an understatement. He is gifted.”
- “He's so amazing! He can depict things from our conversations that I hadn't even thought of but make sense and he gives very easy exercises that can be done with your daily schedule. He's the best”
- “Dr. Datema is a knowledgeable and experienced therapist. He does not simply sit back and listen to me, he challenges me to think and examine myself on a regular basis. His feedback and responses to my inquiries have helped me to challenge the way I feel and react to situations that have normally caused me problems. I highly recommend Dr. Datema to anyone looking for truly effective counseling.”
- “Dr. Datema is incredibly knowledgeable as a therapist. With his help, I've been able to understand the root cause of personality traits and emotional states that I'm outgrowing. He takes the time to ask targeted questions and offer feedback and tools to support me in between sessions, as well as broaden my perspective overall. I feel well supported and am making great progress with his help. Very grateful!”
- “Dr. Datema has a ton of experience. My fiancé and I have really enjoyed our experience. I believe every couple can benefit from Dr. Datema’s knowledge.”
- “Dr. Datema is a pleasure to work with. He has many years of experience and it shows. He has provided many useful tools to help in our couples therapy journey, suggested great books for us to read and is willing to tell it like is without feeling critical. I definitely recommend Dr. Datema!”
- “Dr. Datema is very smart kind and easy to talk to. I highly recommend him.”
- “Dr. Datema is very attentive and has very powerful wisdom to offer. Highly recommend.”
- “I am writing to share my heartfelt appreciation for the exceptional care and support I received from Dr. Datema. Although I am unfortunately unable to continue therapy due to financial difficulties, I wanted to take a moment to recognize the incredible impact he has had on my mental health journey.<br /> <br /> Dr. Datema is an outstanding therapist who demonstrates unwavering professionalism, compassion, and dedication to his clients. He has been a source of immense support for me, always creating a safe and welcoming environment where I felt heard, respected, and understood. His guidance has been invaluable in helping me navigate challenging experiences and work toward healing and personal growth.<br /> <br /> I cannot speak highly enough of his commitment to his clients' well-being and his ability to make a genuine, positive difference in their lives. Dr. Datema is truly an asset to your team, and I hope this feedback reflects the incredible work he does every day.”
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